Manhattan Child Custody Attorney Shares 3 Tips on Successful Joint Custody Arrangements
Manhattan Child Custody Attorney Sabra Sasson Shares 3 Tips on Successful Joint Custody Arrangements
Put Your Child's Interest First
It is imperative to remember that the child's best interest is paramount. In determining the best child custody arrangement, it is important to consider:
- Child's age
- Child's personality
- Child's academic and extra-curricular activities
- Overall family schedule
- Career and social commitments of each parent
- Distance between parents' homes
Develop a Successful Parenting Plan
A parenting plan helps parents establish principles and guidelines for each other and their child. A successful parenting plan may include:
- Schedule regarding where and with whom the child will reside on a day-to-day basis
- Schedule of how holidays and school vacations are handled
- List of who makes important decisions on matters that impact the child
If either parent violates a joint custody agreement, either parent may seek to enforce the parenting plan in the appropriate Family Court. The Court will first review any existing parenting plan between the parents in making its decision which is why it is important to have your agreement in writing, preferably with the assistance of legal counsel who can properly draft the provisions to reflect the agreement.
Practice Effective Communication
Even if you do not have a good relationship with your ex, make sure that you are not arguing in front of your child. Considerations in developing an effective way of communicating with your ex may include:
- Utilizing email to clearly communicate your point
- Agreeing upon the preferred method of communication concerning your child
- Putting aside your personal feelings and agenda
- Focusing on having conversations that enhance the child's well-being
Joint custody is never ideal for a child, however, it is possible to have a successful joint custody arrangement if there is cooperation between the parents and a clearly defined parenting plan.
For more tips on developing a successful joint custody arrangement, contact Manhattan child custody attorney, Sabra Sasson, at (646) 472-7971 for a free consultation.
