How to Tell If Your Husband is Cheating on You?

Are you wondering how to tell if your husband is cheating on you? It is important to be able to identify the signs of cheating. Below are seven signs that your husband might be cheating on you in New York.

 

You Have Observed Changes in His Day-to-Day Routine

 

Is your husband suddenly beginning to “always be working late”?  Is he out more than normal?  Is he making excuses and always coming home late?  If you are experiencing any of these signs, this could be a “red flag”, and it is important to stay observant.

 

Is Your Husband Suddenly Guarding His Phone?

 

If your husband is guarding his phone and in the past he was not guarding his phone, this could be a sign that he is hiding something. Are you noticing that he always takes his phone with him or places it upside down so that others cannot read his incoming text messages?

 

Does Your Husband Seem Detached?

 

Have you noticed that your husband seems to be distancing himself from you? Is he withdrawn from interacting with you and are your conversations shorter?  Is he showing less affection than in the past?  Detachment is another red flag of a cheating spouse.

 

Are There Expensive Dinners on Your Credit Card Bills?

 

If your husband is cheating on you, bank and or credit statements may tell a story.  If you notice charges for dinners that sound excessive for one person, it could a be a sign of cheating.  Other things to look for on a credit card statement are hotel bills and expensive gifts.

 

Is Your Spouse Trying a Bit Too Hard to Improve Their Appearance?

 

Have you noticed your husband going the gym when he used to say, he hates working out?  Are you noticing if he is buying a whole new wardrobe and suddenly wearing cologne?  It is important to keep tabs on changes in their appearance or wardrobe.

 

Has Your Husband Become Defensive or Dismissive?

 

When you question your husband about where he has been, does he become defensive? If your husband is cheating on you, he may put the blame back on you by saying that you are being delusional. 

 

Are You Suddenly Getting Showered With Gifts and Flowers?

 

If your husband is feeling guilty about his affair or cheating on you, he may try to overcompensate with lavish gifts.  The important factor to evaluate is if this behavior is “not the norm.”

 

What Should You Do If You Suspect Your Husband Is Cheating on You?

 

The first step is to gather evidence and keep notes and dates of when suspicious activities may have occurred. One way to know if your husband is cheating on you for sure or not is to hire a private investigator.  A New York private investigator can gather evidence and present it to you so that there is no doubt left of cheating. 

 

Try Having an Honest Conversation With Your Husband

 

Before jumping to conclusions, it may be a good idea to address your concerns with your husband.  However, it is important that you do so in a non-accusatory manner.

 

Seek the Support of Your Friends and Family

 

The support of your friends and family will be essential for getting through this difficult time in your marriage.

 

Consult a New York Divorce Lawyer or Mediation Attorney

 

If your husband is indeed cheating and you want to know what your options for divorce are, contact Sabra Law Group today at 646-472-7971.