How to Take Control of Your Divorce in New York City
When you got married, you didn’t plan on getting divorced. However, if your marriage is heading toward divorce, there are some things you can do now to be better prepared and in control.
Divorce can be very costly. It can take a long time and it can be financially expensive. One way to reduce both the time and the expense is to avoid unnecessary litigation and explore other possible methods for ending your marriage. (Sabra Law Group can help you figure that out in a Discovery Session).
Whether you intend to file for divorce or if you are caught off guard by your spouse, it is important to compose yourself and control your emotions so that you can engage in the divorce process with a rational and thoughtful mind. If you find it challenging to control your emotions, then you may want to consider talking with a therapist, psychologist or a divorce coach. When your emotions take over, you can almost inevitably be assured that your divorce will be very costly (both in time and resources).
You may also receive advice from well-meaning friends and family about taking possession of at least half of your marital assets. Depending upon where you are in the divorce process, that may or may not be beneficial to your situation. Consulting with a New York divorce attorney or a New York divorce mediator who can help you make decisions about essential next steps and how to best protect yourself would be helpful. Furthermore, you can check out this book for more information and considerations regarding your money, your children and divorce.
Additional Resources for Your Divorce
In addition to a divorce mediator and divorce lawyer, you may need a therapist for your children or yourself if your divorce is extremely traumatic or simply to help you and your children to process this new change in your lives. Now is a good time to increase your attention to your self-care and take up an activity, such as running, yoga, meditation, or other activities to help calm your nerves as well as reduce stress levels. Finding a local divorce support group can also be beneficial as it gives you the opportunity to connect with other people who can relate to what you are going through.
Additionally, you may want to consult a tax advisor, a financial consultant or a certified divorce financial advisor to help you understand your finances and explore various possibilities for equitable distribution and support. And if there is marital property, you may also need a real estate consultant or appraiser.
Compile Useful Documents As Soon as Possible
Gather financial documents, including tax returns, bank statements, statements for any brokerage accounts, retirement accounts, credit cards, mortgages, car loans, and other bills. Obtaining complete account numbers for all of these resources would be helpful as well.
Need Assistance Preparing for Your Divorce in New York City?
As you can see, there are a lot of moving parts and there may be a need to work with several different professionals who can assist you through the divorce process. For more information about how to prepare for your divorce, and where to start first, contact Sabra Law Group today at (646) 472-7971 to schedule an appointment for your personal Discovery Session.
